Processing...

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There’s a lot for us to process today. There are a lot of feelings. Shared feelings. Opposing feelings. Social media is awash with people celebrating and it’s also awash with people mourning deeply.

And here’s the honest truth in all of this, I don’t know how to process all of the feelings I’m having personally. They’re overwhelming. How do I, in the midst of my own confusion, come alongside the people around me who are also processing? How can I explain the feelings I have that are in opposition to the feelings some of them are having? How can I care for people and commiserate when our feelings are the same?

I think for myself, all I can do is be available. I don’t know if it will help, I don’t know what it will look like. But if you want to have a conversation, if you want prayer, I want to be here with you and for you. Send me a text, give me a call, shoot me a message. Whatever it looks like let’s navigate through this together.

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